Introduction

In this post I plan to provide a short introduction to who I am, why I am creating this blog and what I intend to get out of it.


About me:

I am a 32 year old average male living in the Midwestern United States.  I'm college educated with a bachelors degree in engineering,  I'm married, have 1 kid, and I have not felt an orgasm since I was probably 16.  I'm sure someone out there is saying how can you have a kid without having an orgasm.  As it turns out ejaculation and orgasm are two different things.  Physically I function fine but when it comes to feeling those awesome feelings it just kind of fizzles out with me.  The condition is known as anorgasmia or ejaculatory anhedonia.  I'm sure I'll post more about this later.  I'm also a recovering porn addict.  It is quite possible the two are related but again I'll post more later.  I also consider myself a terrible writer so hopefully those interested can bear through it.

Why create this and what I intend to get out of it:

I think the main idea for this blog came when I stumbled across a blog from a female who was documenting her quest to reach orgasm.  In my limited searching I found lots of information discussing female orgasm problems but very little about males (with the exception of premature ejaculation).  I'm hoping by creating this blog I can get some of the many thoughts and possible misconceptions about my own sexuality out of my head and either fix or come to term with my issues.  This things are unfortunately not things I feel comfortable talking to my friends and family about, so thanks to Internet anonymity I will talk about them all openly here.  I don't have great expectations for this blog to be popular or become mainstream, but it would be great if I raise some awareness for others with similar issues and prompt some great discussion.

If you made it this far thanks for sticking with me.  For my first real post I plan to go into detail about my ejaculatory anhedonia.  If you are interested or have questions for me please leave comments.